New Fears Eve

New Year's Eve 2 without Dree.  Last New Year's was our first without Dree.  We were fearful that New Year's Eve would be super sad.  It was.  But it was also appropriate as we searched all the videos that Audrey used to watch.  We found some funny Frozen videos.  It was weirdly an appropriate way for us to honor Audrey.  Amanda and I have been blogging on this site for one year.  Starting around this time last year, I started the tradition of finding a picture of Audrey and Hannah from the last year that we celebrated that holiday.  Last year I posted this picture of the girls from New Year's Eve.  I was disappointed that there was no picture of Audrey and Hannah ringing in the new year.  

Hannah has decided she loves ice skating now.  So we went ice skating with her friend for "Noon's Year Eve"  It was a nice way for Hannah to spend the day. She had lots of fun and was smiling a lot.
And then, it comes back to the fact that I don't have a picture of the girls ringing in the new year.   It really sucks to think that we never will.

Like last year, New Year's Eve was nice, but will never be enough.

So after this year's small get together with family.  We did ring in the new year with Dree.

Happy New Year's Dree.







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